Finding Balance Between Doing and Being
Episode Overview
It's crucial to balance doing with being. Societal pressures often push us to overwork. Healing from trauma includes learning to rest. Mindful practices can help create balance. Support from loved ones is invaluable.
You are a human being, not a human doing
Ever felt like you're running on a hamster wheel, constantly doing but never just being? Ronni and Jennie, sisters who grew up in a tumultuous home filled with addiction, abuse, and mental illness, share their journey of healing and finding balance. In this episode, they dive into the struggle between doing what’s necessary and making time to simply 'be'.
The conversation is both heartfelt and humorous, as they reflect on their upbringing and how it shaped their need to justify their existence through constant activity. Ronni and Jennie discuss how societal pressures push us to always be productive, often at the expense of our well-being. They share personal anecdotes about their own battles with perfectionism and people-pleasing, offering relatable insights for anyone caught in the same trap.
Jennie’s candid admission of working 38 hours out of 56 and feeling guilty for taking time off is a stark reminder of how ingrained this mindset can be. The sisters also explore practical strategies for incorporating more 'being' into daily life. From meditative walks to mindful cooking, they suggest ways to infuse moments of presence into even the busiest schedules.
Jennie’s story about finally setting up her swing under a beloved oak tree serves as a metaphor for the importance of creating spaces for rest and reflection. This episode is a touching blend of wisdom and warmth, reminding you that it's okay to slow down and just be. Whether you're struggling with similar issues or simply looking for ways to find more balance in your life, Ronni and Jennie's experiences offer both comfort and actionable advice.
So, why not take a break and listen? You might just find the permission you need to stop doing and start being.