Fern's Story: Embracing Autism and Finding Joy in Parenthood
Whatever this is, it is not helping Jack. Once we got into this thing that we were so afraid of, it didn't have the same kind of hold on us anymore.
Parenting can be a rollercoaster, especially when your child doesn't fit into typical molds. In this heartfelt episode of 'Birds in a Tree', Fern opens up about her journey with her son, who has autism. Initially, Fern was in deep denial. Her son made eye contact and loved to cuddle, which didn't match the usual signs of autism she knew. But as time went on and questions from doctors, friends, and family grew louder, Fern had to confront her fears.
She had a tough conversation with herself and decided to face the diagnosis head-on. That moment marked the beginning of their healing journey. Fern shares the emotional turmoil she went through, describing it as a weight lifted off her shoulders once she accepted the reality. She dives into what it's like to notice changes in your child and the importance of seeking help when it's needed.
This episode isn't just about the challenges; it's also about finding joy in the little moments and learning to unclench as a parent. Fern talks about the difficulty of putting aside personal interests when you're fully immersed in parenting but also highlights the strength that comes from overcoming obstacles. If you're a parent dealing with similar struggles or just want to hear an inspiring story, this episode is for you.
Fern's journey is a testament to the power of acceptance and the incredible strength that comes from facing your fears. Tune in to 'Birds in a Tree' for a candid conversation that will resonate with many parents out there.