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Fathers – Episode 117

Wednesday 24th June 2015

Spencer reflects on fatherhood and how recovery has helped him grow as a parent and mentor. Listen now on The Recovery Show.
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Fatherhood Reflections: Finding Peace and Growth Through Recovery

I look back in horror at that. So the middle part of their childhood for me as a father, I think I continued to enjoy it... I gave my children room to explore.
Fatherhood is a journey filled with highs and lows, and episode 117 of The Recovery Show takes a heartfelt look at this complex experience. Spencer, the host, shares his personal reflections while walking through the woods and fields behind his church, offering a candid glimpse into his relationship with his own father and his role as a father to his children.
He speaks openly about the lasting impact of his father's behavior, both good and bad, and how these experiences shaped his approach to parenting. Spencer's story is a powerful testament to the challenges many fathers face and the potential for growth through recovery. He discusses how the principles of the Al-Anon program helped him let go of control and accept things as they are, ultimately becoming a better father.
One particularly moving part of the episode is when Spencer recounts a difficult time when his daughter was in intensive care. He expresses regret over his initial reactions but also gratitude for the recovery tools that later helped him navigate such tough moments more effectively. Beyond his personal experiences, Spencer touches on broader themes like mentorship, obsessive thinking, and the power of music in finding serenity.
He shares how he applies recovery principles to support teenagers in his church community, demonstrating the far-reaching impact of these tools. The episode wraps up with a touching song that Spencer's father used to play on his guitar, underscoring the healing power of music. This episode is a poignant reminder of the importance of self-reflection and how recovery can help us become better fathers, mentors, and support systems for those we love.