Fatherless to Fatherhood: Rebuilding Families by Building Fathers
Episode Overview
Fatherlessness leads to higher risks of incarceration, substance abuse, and suicide. Dr. Duane's six steps to becoming a responsible father include taking responsibility, connecting with children, and leading by example. Therapists of colour are crucial for providing relatable mental health support in communities. Building fathers is essential for rebuilding families and supporting children's growth. Communities should value and seek out wisdom within their midst.
'Any man can create a child, but a father will not forsake his child'
Michael D. dives into the heart-wrenching issue of fatherlessness in the African American community in this powerful episode of 'Health and Healing Dealing with Trauma and Addictions'. With more than 72% of African American children born out of wedlock, Michael discusses the severe impacts of fatherless homes, from higher incarceration rates to increased instances of substance abuse and even suicide. He references Dr. Duane's work, which highlights the importance of rebuilding families by focusing on fathers. Dr.
Duane offers six key observations on what makes a man a father, emphasizing responsibility, connection, selflessness, leadership, affection, and respect for the mother of his children. These points are not just theoretical; they provide practical guidance for men striving to step up as fathers. Michael also stresses the need for more therapists of colour within communities to ensure that people feel safe and understood when seeking mental health support.
He shares a poignant African proverb: 'No matter how poor a village, there is always one rich man of wisdom', urging communities to seek out and value wisdom in their midst. This episode is a call to action for men to take responsibility and for communities to support each other in the journey towards healing and growth.