Parenting Unfiltered: Bridget and Jeren's Honest Reflections
I think, as I was growing up and as things disintegrated in their marriage and being the oldest and observing the two different ways of being, my father's very stoic- and he kind of keeps everything inside and my mom would be- it's like no problem being hysterical really anywhere, anytime, and didn't seem to have that, you know, sense of shame, or I don't know just. It was just no holding it in, none, yeah, and I didn't.
Ever wondered how your upbringing shapes the way you parent? In this episode of 'Factory Settings', Bridget Phetasy and her husband, Jeren Montgomery, dive into their own childhoods to uncover the lessons they've carried into their roles as parents. They chat about their relationships with their fathers, the quirks of their mothers, and the unexpected journey to becoming parents themselves. Jeren, an associate marriage and family therapist, brings a unique perspective to the table, blending professional insights with personal anecdotes.
Bridget, on the other hand, offers candid reflections on how her parents' divorce and her mother's neurotic tendencies influenced her mental health and parenting style. They explore the phrases they heard most often growing up, what they wish they had received from their parents, and how having a child has reshaped their views on family. This conversation is not just about parenting tips; it's a raw and relatable look at how our early experiences shape who we are today.
If you're curious about the impact of family dynamics or looking for some heartfelt stories, this episode is a must-listen.