Julie Sanford

Married to Addiction

Julie Sanford

  • Episode 52: The Importance of a ‘To-Don’t’ List

Episode 52: The Importance of a ‘To-Don’t’ List

Tuesday 9th August 2022

Learn how a 'To-Don't' List can bring peace and balance to wives of alcoholics in this episode of 'Married to Addiction'.
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Finding Peace: The Power of a 'To-Don't' List for Wives of Alcoholics

Your main to do right now is taking care of yourself, not your husband taking care of yourself.
Ever feel like your to-do list is running your life? Julie Sanford, host of 'Married to Addiction', knows the feeling all too well. In this episode, she introduces the concept of a 'To-Don't' List, a tool designed to help wives of alcoholics find some much-needed rest and relief. Julie dives into why this list can be more crucial than your usual to-do list, especially when you're juggling the emotional and practical challenges of living with an alcoholic spouse.
She offers practical examples of what to include on your 'To-Don't' List, like avoiding overcommitment and letting go of the unrealistic expectation of maintaining a perfect home. Julie's advice is all about prioritizing self-care and recognizing that you can't pour from an empty cup. This episode isn't just about making lists; it's about finding balance and giving yourself permission to let go of unnecessary burdens.
Julie's compassionate approach provides a sense of community and understanding, reminding listeners that they're not alone in their struggles. She also highlights the Secret Sister Circle, a faith-based support group for Christian wives of alcoholics, as a resource for additional support and connection. If you're feeling overwhelmed and in need of practical advice to lighten your load, this episode is a must-listen.