If you can endure just a little bit of awkwardness, embarrassment, confrontation, whatever it is that you're scared of, rejection, and then all of a sudden, this burden is lifted, whatever that is for you, whether it's something traumatic, whether it's something small, whatever it is, or even if it's like- hey, this bothers me about you if you're able to say that it's such freedom, because now you move forward from that.