Living True to Yourself: The Stoic Way of Ignoring Popular Opinion
We can step away from the unwinnable game of pleasing everyone and laugh away the shaming, not dwell on the ambiguous reactions or negative reactions people may have toward us and not place our happiness in the hands of others.
Ever feel weighed down by what others think of you? In this episode of the Stoic Solutions Podcast, host Justin Vacula dives into the age-old struggle of seeking approval from others. Drawing from the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius, Justin unpacks the Stoic approach to living a virtuous life, free from the burden of external validation. He argues that while we might try to influence how others see us, their opinions are ultimately beyond our control.
Instead, the focus should be on living true to our own values and seeking counsel from a trusted few. By embracing moderation and progress, we can enrich our lives through meaningful interactions and relationships. This Stoic mindset not only reduces anxiety but also fosters authentic living and contentment. Tune in to learn how adopting these principles can lead to a more fulfilling and peaceful life.