Gail Ferguson Jones

Buttrfly Effect podcast

Gail Ferguson Jones

  • Episode 37: How to Handle the Trifecta of Holidays

Episode 37: How to Handle the Trifecta of Holidays

Tuesday 19th December 2023

Learn how to manage holiday stress when a loved one is struggling with addiction. Recovery coach Kate Duffy shares practical tips in this episode of The Buttrfly Effect.
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Buttrfly Effect podcast
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Gail Ferguson Jones
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Sobriety Toolkit
Family Recovery from Addiction
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Handling Holiday Stress with an Addicted Loved One: Practical Tips from The Buttrfly Effect

Episode Overview

  • The episode delves into the emotional challenges faced by both families and addicts during the holidays
  • Kate shares her personal experience of overcoming substance abuse, giving families insight into the experience of the user
  • The conversation emphasizes the need for an open environment where everyone's feelings are allowed
  • Kate discusses the importance of families starting their own recovery journey, regardless of their loved one's willingness
  • Managing expectations to stay present and recognize that their loved one's behavior is not a reflection of who they truly are
Your loved one's behavior is not who they are. It is the addiction working. And if you're fighting that, you're not helping get to the root of what's going on. So I want you to recognize that they don't like it any more than you like it, despite how they're showing up.
The holiday season can be a minefield for families dealing with addiction. Gail Ferguson Jones sits down with Kate Duffy, a seasoned recovery coach and interventionist, to discuss the unique hurdles that Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's bring. Known as the 'trifecta of holidays', this period can amplify stress and emotional turmoil for both those in recovery and their families. Kate, who founded Tipping Point Recovery Inc., offers practical advice on how to navigate these festive yet challenging times.
She draws from her own journey of overcoming substance abuse, providing a rare glimpse into the mind of someone who has been there. The conversation covers everything from managing expectations to creating an open environment where all feelings are valid. Kate emphasizes the importance of families embarking on their own recovery journeys, irrespective of their loved one's progress. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to turn holiday chaos into a time of healing and connection.