Gail Ferguson Jones
Gail Ferguson Jones
Episode 35: Prodependency. A Different Perspective
Episode 35: Prodependency. A Different Perspective
Episode 35: Prodependency. A Different Perspective
Tuesday 24th October 2023
Discover prodependence with Dr. Robert Weiss on the Buttrfly Effect podcast—a compassionate approach to supporting loved ones struggling with addiction.
48 minutes
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Gail Ferguson Jones
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Sobriety Toolkit
Family Recovery from Addiction
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Empowering Recovery Journeys
Navigating Intimate Relationships
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Episode Overview
- Dr. Robert Weiss introduces the concept of pro-dependence, a compassionate approach to supporting addicts
- Insights into the limitations of the traditional codependency model and the need for nurturing and self-care
- Practical advice and encouragement for anyone navigating the complexities of a loved one's addiction
- The emotional and mental challenges faced by families and friends
- Highlighting the importance of setting healthy boundaries and finding support and understanding
I think part of pro-dependence is to say to someone, you know, I think you did the best you could to try to help that person. When you were yelling, when you were screaming, when you were smashing things against the wall, that wasn't your best choice. But if I can help you love them and accept their illness and be with them and support them without trying to control it or make it different, just loving them and letting yourself love them and stay out of the way of abuse, then you don't have anything you have to look at yourself for and say, I got to do that differently.
How do you love someone who’s struggling with addiction without losing yourself? This episode of the Buttrfly Effect podcast tackles this tough question head-on. Host Gail Ferguson Jones sits down with Dr. Robert Weiss, a seasoned therapist and author, to discuss his innovative concept of prodependence. Unlike the traditional codependency model, which often advises detachment, prodependence encourages supportive, loving relationships with those battling addiction. Dr.
Weiss believes that staying connected and offering compassionate support can be more beneficial than stepping back and detaching. He shares practical steps for maintaining your well-being while helping your loved one, such as seeking external support, prioritizing self-care, and setting healthy boundaries. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the chaos of a loved one’s addiction, this conversation offers a fresh perspective that might just change the way you approach your relationship.