So putting my time and attention on my children, if someone weren't didn't want to go to Al-Anon, is there another support group, someone that they can call, that they trust that they have an opportunity, that when they're in a crisis mode, they have at least someone who understands their situation, whether it be a professional counselor or a friend, or someone church, synagogue, things like that- right, someone that they can reach out to so that they can get it off their chest so that they're not mulling over it.