If you don't take care of you, who's going to? If you don't take the time to figure out if you like apples or you like oranges, or maybe you like both, but if you don't take the time to figure it out and you just keep eating oranges even though you don't like oranges and there's apple sitting right there and you haven't had an apple because you're like, I'm just going to have the orange because everybody else wants me to have the orange.