Joey's Sober Wedding: Navigating Family Celebrations Without Alcohol
If I wasn't doing the work I was doing, I would probably relapse.
Ever wondered how to handle a big family event like a wedding without the crutch of alcohol? In this episode of 'Charlie and Joey Share', Joey opens up about attending his sister's wedding sober. He shares the nerves he felt beforehand, remembering how weddings used to mean spending most of his time at the bar. This time, though, he was determined to face the event with a clear mind and the support of his friend Charlie.
Joey talks about the mental gymnastics of being around people drinking and how it made him reflect on his past actions. But it wasn’t all stress; he also found joy in dancing and connecting with his girlfriend's family. The conversation dives into the importance of having sober friends who understand the struggle and can offer real support. Charlie was there for Joey throughout the wedding, providing a safety net whenever things got tough.
Joey admits that without doing the work he's been doing, he might have relapsed. Instead, he’s racking up sober days and feeling proud of his progress. They also discuss how recovery is about being comfortable with discomfort and how mindset shifts are crucial. Joey reflects on how he used to feel more towards the end of his drinking days and how letting it all out with sober friends has been therapeutic.
The episode wraps up with a heartwarming chat about celebrating sober milestones and stepping out of your comfort zone to build supportive friendships. If you're curious about navigating social events sober or need a dose of inspiration, this episode is a must-listen.