Finding somebody, whoever it is- if it's your mom, if it's your cousin, if it's your sister, if it's your brother, if it's your next door neighbor, if it's the lady you met in the grocery store, if it's the lady you play tennis with, if it's the lady you see walking when you go walk your dog, whoever it is that you find that you have a relationship with, that you can be your authentic self. Finding that relationship is really important because I think for myself at least having someone that isn't going to judge me is so important because I judge myself so much, right.