Simone & Tony

Hair of the Dog: A Memoir of a Family's True Crime Journey with Narcissism

Simone & Tony

  • Episode 18: My Grandfather: The Bigamist

Episode 18: My Grandfather: The Bigamist

Thursday 25th May 2023

Join Simone in 'Hair of the Dog' Episode 18 as she uncovers her grandfather's bigamous past and the generational trauma from WWII. A tale of secrets, lies, and healing.
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41 minutes
Resilience Amid Chaos
Generational Trauma
Informative
Thought-provoking
Dark Yet Humorous

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Hair of the Dog: A Memoir of a Family's True Crime Journey with Narcissism
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A Grandfather's Secrets: Bigamy and the Shadows of War

Episode Overview

  • Simone recounts her family's history marked by narcissism, bigamy, and trauma
  • The episode delves into the aftermath of World War II, shedding light on the lasting effects of PTSD and its generational impact
  • Insights into James Smith's mysterious post-war existence, shedding light on the complexities and challenges faced by a bigamist combat medic
  • Personal anecdotes offer a poignant and thought-provoking narrative of resilience, chaos, and healing
  • A deep exploration of the family's past, combining dark yet humorous elements, and shedding light on the shadows of trauma and generational impact
I don't condone what he did, but I can see where those cracks started happening. PTSD wasn't even, I mean, sure people had like, what did they call it? Just like shell shock, shell shock. Yeah, I mean, so there was like a term, there was some awareness of it, but there really wasn't any, you know, support structures. And then I think at that time, men in America were viewed, you know, oh, you're back from the war time to, you know, get a job, be a provider, take care of your kids, you know, like, it's a pretty rapid transition. You know, and so I get why I don't condone what he did, but I can see why. And so that's becoming clear to me too. Like as his granddaughter, even though I never met him, it's kind of like, okay, I get, I get the why now.
Ever wondered how deep family secrets can go? In this episode of 'Hair of the Dog', Simone takes listeners on a gripping journey into her family's past, revealing the complex life of her grandfather, James Smith. Known for his bigamous relationships and mysterious post-war existence, James's story is one of both chaos and resilience. Simone sheds light on the generational trauma that has rippled through her family, particularly the lasting effects of PTSD from World War II.
Through personal anecdotes and historical context, this episode offers a raw and poignant look at how past traumas shape present realities. Whether you're interested in true crime, family dynamics, or the impact of war, this episode provides a unique blend of dark humor and heartfelt reflection. Tune in to explore the tangled web of secrets, lies, and healing that define Simone's family history.