Adoptees and Addiction: Lisa K. and David B. Bohl's Stories of Healing
We have issues of loss and grief and identity development, self-esteem and lack of information about family history that may never be resolvable, which contributes to that feeling of discomfort.
Imagine growing up feeling like an outsider in your own family. In this episode of 'Beyond Belief Sobriety', Lisa K. and David B. Bohl open up about their experiences as adoptees who faced addiction. Lisa, a Korean adoptee, shares her struggles with identity and self-esteem while growing up in a white family. David, author of 'Parallel Universes: The Story of Rebirth', talks about the emotional impact of being relinquished at birth and how it contributed to his substance abuse issues.
The conversation dives deep into the unique challenges that adoptees face, such as feelings of loss, grief, and the lack of information about their biological families. Both Lisa and David highlight the importance of finding support within adoptee communities and accessing resources like the American Adoption Congress. Throughout the episode, they emphasize the role of radical acceptance in their recovery journeys. They discuss the discomfort that comes with confronting unresolved trauma and how embracing this discomfort is crucial for healing.
If you've ever felt like you're carrying the weight of unresolved issues, this episode offers a compassionate look at how to navigate those feelings and find support. 'Adoptees and Addiction' is a powerful discussion that sheds light on the intersection of adoption and substance abuse, offering hope and resources for anyone on a similar path.