Unmasking Manipulation: How Addicts Pressure Their Loved Ones
Manipulation is at the heart of addiction, really dishonesty, and manipulation really at the heart of it.
Have you ever felt manipulated by a loved one struggling with addiction? In this compelling episode of the 'Buttrfly Effect' podcast, host Gail Ferguson Jones sits down with Certified Recovery Coach Deryl Glaze to dissect the five most common manipulation tactics addicts use to coerce their loved ones into enabling behaviors. Deryl, an ordained minister and head recovery coach at Minnesota Adult and Teen Challenge, brings nearly two decades of experience to the table.
Through his Motivation Through Recovery program, he helps individuals find purpose beyond sobriety. Throughout the episode, Gail and Deryl dive deep into tactics like gaslighting, guilt-tripping, love-bombing, and blackmailing. They don't just identify these behaviors; they also provide practical advice on how to recognize and respond to them in a healthy way. This isn't just about pointing fingers—it's about understanding the underlying issues and taking steps towards emotional healing and self-love.
Deryl shares poignant stories from his extensive career, illustrating how manipulation can derail recovery efforts and why breaking free from these toxic patterns is crucial. Gail adds her insights as a certified peer recovery coach, offering a balanced perspective that combines professional expertise with personal empathy. Whether you're dealing with addiction yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers invaluable guidance on setting boundaries and reclaiming your life.
Tune in to learn how to navigate these challenging dynamics and start building a future filled with purpose and empowerment.