Gail Ferguson Jones
Gail Ferguson Jones
Episode 14: Counter-Dependence
Episode 14: Counter-Dependence
Episode 14: Counter-Dependence
Thursday 18th February 2021
Clinical Psychologist Barry Weinhold discusses counter-dependence and breaking free from the false self on 'The Buttrfly Effect' podcast.
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Get the buttons here!Counter-Dependence: Breaking Free from the False Self with Barry Weinhold
The bottom line of all addictions actually is shame and then an attempt to cover it up.
What if the very traits you thought were strengths are actually barriers to true connection? In this thought-provoking episode of 'The Buttrfly Effect', host Gail Ferguson Jones sits down with Clinical Psychologist Barry Weinhold to discuss the concept of counter-dependence. Weinhold, who has authored over 75 books, introduces the idea of counter-dependence as living behind a false self that hinders intimate relationships. He explains how this radical self-reliance, often rooted in childhood experiences, can lead to addiction, isolation, and depression.
Weinhold's latest book, 'Get Real. The Hazard of Living Out of Your False Self', dives deep into these issues, and in this episode, he shares key insights from his research and clinical practice. Together, Jones and Weinhold explore how societal expectations reinforce our false selves and discuss practical strategies for emotional healing and personal growth.
Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the differences between counter-dependence and codependence, and how secure bonding in early life stages plays a crucial role in emotional development. Weinhold emphasizes the importance of addressing shame as a core element in breaking free from these destructive patterns. He advocates for taking responsibility for one's healing journey while acknowledging the influence of social structures.
Packed with practical advice and heartfelt discussions, this episode offers valuable tools for anyone struggling with addiction or seeking personal growth. Tune in to learn how to establish healthy relationships and connect with your authentic self.