Love and Narcissism: Misunderstandings and Misconceptions
And one of the ingredients of a true loving relationship is that we develop the pathway towards trust that I'm going to be open toward you about who I am, and I would hope that you would be open toward me about who you are.
Ever wondered if narcissists can truly love? In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins teams up with Dr. Les Carter, a specialist in anger management and narcissistic personality disorder, to untangle the complicated web of narcissism and love. If you ask a narcissist if they love their partner, child, or parent, they'll likely say 'yes', but is their version of love genuine? Dr. Hawkins and Dr.
Carter dive deep into this question, revealing that a narcissist's concept of love often revolves around self-gratification, admiration, and conformity—elements far removed from authentic love. They explore the five levels of relationships and illustrate what healthy love should look like, emphasizing the critical role of empathy and trust. The discussion also highlights the emotional laziness that can plague narcissistic relationships and the competitive nature that often surfaces.
This episode offers valuable insights into the misconceptions narcissists hold about love and the resulting impact on their relationships. If you're navigating a relationship with a narcissist or just curious about the dynamics at play, this conversation provides a thoughtful look at how to foster healthier connections.