Parenting Grown Kids: Insights with Dr. Alyson Nerenberg and Dr. Marcus Earl
You want to be a sounding board for your kids, not be telling them what to do.
Parenting doesn't end when your kids grow up; it just evolves. In this episode of 'Heartfelt Harmonies', Dr. Alyson Nerenberg teams up with Dr. Marcus Earl to tackle the unique challenges of parenting adult children. They dive into how the parent-child dynamic shifts and the importance of transitioning to an adult-adult relationship. One nugget of wisdom they share is the significance of being a supportive listener rather than a directive advisor to your grown kids.
Communication and setting boundaries are key themes, helping to prevent slipping back into old, unproductive roles. They also emphasize finding shared activities and embracing your child's partner to foster stronger bonds. Beyond parenting, the episode touches on broader topics like the impact of addictions on relationships, coping with grief, navigating online dating, understanding relationship ambivalence, dealing with difficult people, and the transformative power of psychotherapy.
Whether you're struggling with your relationship with your adult children or just looking for practical advice on various relationship issues, this episode offers a treasure trove of insights.