Vacations and Holidays with an Alcoholic Partner: Matt and Sheri Salis Share Their Story
Sometimes I do, especially like you know, this time the morning we were. Honestly, because we- just I hear it from others in these situations- that the alcoholic in recovery is more likely to be the one going. But I feel like in the last, like two to three weeks, I said something about: oh, good thing, you're not drinking right now.
Ever wondered what it's like to navigate vacations and holidays when alcoholism is part of the equation? In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Matt and Sheri Salis open up about the unique challenges they faced during such times. When Matt was actively drinking, his unpredictable moods, neediness, and insecurities turned festive occasions into stressful ordeals for Sheri. Instead of joy and relaxation, she found herself constantly on edge, dealing with the fallout of his addiction.
Now, with Matt in significant sobriety, you might think things would be smooth sailing. But Sheri reveals that the scars from those years haven't faded as quickly as one might hope. Matt's curiosity about why she isn't more enthusiastic about their improved situation leads to a deep and honest conversation between the two.
They discuss the disconnect that often exists between ex-drinkers and their loved ones, the lingering impacts of alcoholism on family dynamics, and the journey of rebuilding trust and enjoyment in their relationship. This episode is a raw and relatable exploration of how addiction can shape even the happiest moments and how recovery is a continuous process of healing and understanding.