Understanding High-Functioning Alcoholics: Five Key Insights from Loved Ones
We can't find our purpose in life while we're drinking... The shame of the alcohol abuse is what leads to this discontentment and this belief that we're not doing the right thing.
Ever wondered what it’s like to love someone who seems to have it all together but struggles with alcohol? In this episode of the 'Untoxicated Podcast', Sheri and Matt Salis unpack the complexities of high-functioning alcoholism through the eyes of those closest to them. They dive into five universal themes that often go unnoticed but play a significant role in understanding the alcoholic mind and behavior. First up is childhood trauma.
Even those with seemingly perfect childhoods can carry hidden scars that later manifest as coping mechanisms like alcohol use. Next, they tackle the idea of work success justification. Many high-functioning alcoholics use their career achievements to mask their drinking problems, creating a facade that everything is under control. Another crucial point discussed is the elusiveness of purpose. High-functioning alcoholics often struggle to find meaning in their lives, leading them to rely on alcohol as a way to fill that void.
The Salis' also highlight the shame associated with alcohol abuse, which can trap individuals in a cycle of denial and self-doubt. Finally, the episode emphasizes the importance of therapy. Admitting the need for help is a massive step for anyone dealing with alcoholism, and therapy can offer a safe space for healing and growth. If you or someone you know is grappling with these issues, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice.
Tune in to understand better how these universal themes affect not just the alcoholic but everyone around them.