Phil Paikea's Journey: From Gang Leader to Advocate for Non-Violence
We are miracles and I believe in a loving higher power. Because, mate, I question that a lot like I was such a fucking horrible little bastard. So, you know, they say that you're, you can't heal what you don't reveal.
Imagine growing up in a small town where respect is everything, but home is filled with domestic violence. This was the reality for Phil Paikea, a former Black Power gang leader who now dedicates his life to helping men live without violence. Born in Helensville, Phil ran away from home at 16 and was soon engulfed in a world of alcohol, drugs, and gang life. His story is one of dramatic transformation and redemption.
In this episode of 'The Truth About Addiction', Phil opens up about his tumultuous past and how he found his way to a life of purpose and service. As the Lead Facilitator of Safe Man Safe Family and a key figure in the It's Not Ok campaign, Phil challenges harmful stereotypes about masculinity and promotes healthy relationships. He's also been married to his wife Rowena for 44 years and together they've fostered 243 children over the past two decades.
Through faith and a commitment to helping others, Phil's story is both raw and uplifting. If you're interested in tales of redemption, the impact of historical trauma, and the power of healing, this episode is a must-listen.