Ep42 – The Alcohol is Gone, But the Asshole LingersEp42 – The Alcohol is Gone, But the Asshole Lingers
Untoxicated Podcast
One of the most common concerns Sheri and Matt hear from the loved ones of alcoholics is, "He's a drunk asshole now, but what if he sobers up, and he's still an asshole?" The processes of alcoholism sobriety and relationship recovery are long and arduo...
44:11•22 Jun 2020
Sobriety's Struggles: Confronting the Lingering Behaviors
“We don't lose our asshole-ness as soon as we put down the drink. It takes time, and the final destination isn't perfect. But it's a good, normal, asshole-free messy.”
Ever wondered if sobriety alone can mend all the wounds left by alcoholism? Matt and Sheri Salis tackle this tough question head-on in this episode of the 'Untoxicated Podcast'. They dive into a concern many loved ones of alcoholics share: what if the person remains difficult even after giving up alcohol? The journey to recovery is more than just putting down the bottle; it’s about emotional growth and healing old scars.
Matt opens up about his moments of realization, where he understood that the hurtful things he said while drunk were not his true feelings but rather a manifestation of his addiction. He discusses the importance of emotional maturity and the time it takes to rebuild trust and relationships. Sheri shares her side, explaining how her resilience has grown over time, allowing her to not be hurt by Matt's past comments.
Together, they paint a realistic picture of recovery—it's messy, imperfect, but ultimately hopeful. They also highlight their Echoes of Recovery program, which offers a supportive community for those affected by a loved one's alcoholism. If you're navigating similar challenges, this episode provides both empathy and practical advice to help you through the process.
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