The Hidden Struggles of Chronic Alcoholism: Sheri and Matt's Journey
Episode Overview
Chronic alcoholism impacts relationships even between drinking episodes. Gaslighting can make partners question their reality. Daily drinking leads to dysfunctional behaviour and strained relationships. Maladaptive coping mechanisms hinder emotional regulation. Resilience is key to overcoming chronic addiction.
The chronic impact from living in a fog of alcoholism is arguably more destructive.
Sheri and Matt Salis are no strangers to the havoc that alcoholism can wreak on a marriage. In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, they share their experiences of living through the fog of chronic addiction. While acute alcoholism often grabs the headlines with its chaotic and traumatic episodes, Sheri and Matt shed light on the more insidious effects of chronic alcoholism. They discuss how the fog rolls in between drinks, impacting both the drinker and their loved ones.
Matt reveals how even temporary sobriety was marred by a warped mind, leading to dysfunctional behaviour and strained relationships. Sheri shares her perspective as the partner navigating through this thick fog, dealing with gaslighting and questioning her own reality. The couple dives deep into the chronic effects of alcoholism, highlighting how it dragged them down even in the absence of active drinking. They explore the emotional toll, anxiety, and frustration that permeated their lives.
Matt candidly discusses his maladaptive coping mechanisms and the inability to regulate his nervous system without alcohol. Sheri reflects on her unwavering stance against daily drinking and the challenges of maintaining respect in their relationship. Through their raw and honest conversation, Sheri and Matt offer hope and understanding to those grappling with similar struggles. Their story is a testament to the resilience needed to overcome chronic addiction and rebuild a healthy, supportive partnership.
Tune in to hear how they navigated these turbulent waters and found clarity on the other side.