The Fallacy of Control: Addiction Beyond Substances
Episode Overview
Addiction can extend beyond substances to power and control. Society often glorifies certain addictions while shaming others. Detachment can be an act of love and acceptance. Trying to control an addict can take a significant emotional toll. Understanding addiction requires a shift in societal perceptions.
"Detachment is love. I love you enough not to try to control and change you."
In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Sheri and Matt Salis tackle the complex issue of addiction to power and control. They explore how society often glorifies certain addictions while shaming others, creating a skewed perception of what addiction truly is. Drawing on the wisdom of Gabor Mate, a leading expert in addiction recovery, they discuss how power and control can be as addictive as substances like alcohol or drugs.
Through personal anecdotes and broader reflections, Sheri and Matt highlight the irony of how some addictions are celebrated while others are condemned. They delve into the challenges of trying to control an uncontrollable situation, such as living with an alcoholic, and the emotional toll it takes on relationships. The episode also touches on the concept of detachment, arguing that it is often misunderstood and wrongly assigned a negative connotation.
Instead, they propose that detachment can be an act of love and acceptance. With candid discussions about their own experiences and the struggles they faced, Sheri and Matt offer valuable insights for anyone dealing with addiction, either personally or within their family. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking to understand the complexities of addiction and the fallacy of control. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that will leave you reflecting on your own perceptions of addiction and control.