Uncovering Anxiety in Alcoholic Relationships
Episode Overview
Understanding the roots of anxiety in alcoholic relationships. How perfectionism can contribute to addiction. The impact of manipulative behaviours on partners. Importance of finding self-worth and respect in recovery. Practical advice for partners dealing with an alcoholic.
Detachment and loss of respect sound awful, but they're actually huge blessings.
In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Matt and Sheri Salis dive deep into the often overlooked roots of anxiety in relationships affected by alcoholism. They candidly discuss how the chaos of active addiction can mask the underlying anxiety that partners experience long before acknowledging alcoholism. Matt shares his journey of realising how his perfectionism and drinking habits contributed to the anxiety and turmoil in their marriage.
Sheri, on the other hand, reflects on her struggle to maintain self-respect while dealing with Matt's manipulative behaviours during his drinking days. They highlight how partners of alcoholics often feel unworthy and anxious, leading to a loss of respect for their alcoholic partners. This episode is not just about the struggles but also about finding respect for oneself and understanding the importance of self-worth in recovery.
With humour and raw honesty, Matt and Sheri offer valuable insights for anyone dealing with similar issues, making this episode a must-listen for those seeking understanding and support in their journey towards sobriety. Whether you're an alcoholic, a partner, or someone who loves an alcoholic, you'll find relatable experiences and practical advice here. Tune in to learn more about the invisible lines crossed in alcoholic relationships and how to reclaim your self-respect.