Matt & Sheri Salis
Matt & Sheri Salis
Ep216 – Lowered Standards and Disappointing Outcomes
Ep216 – Lowered Standards and Disappointing Outcomes
Ep216 – Lowered Standards and Disappointing Outcomes
Monday 6th November 2023
Sheri and Matt Salis explore how alcoholism lowers standards for everyone involved, discussing the trauma and challenges of recovery.
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Episode Overview
- Alcoholism's progressive impact on loved ones' standards and expectations
- The challenges of living with a high-functioning alcoholic and navigating emotional turmoil
- The importance of support and connection in dealing with the complexities of alcoholism
- Insights into the unfiltered experiences and reflections of the Salis' in dealing with alcoholism
- Exploring the trauma of active addiction and the toll it takes on relationships
I think that's why it's really hard for the people with high functioning alcoholics the point you mentioned about there's always someone worse off than you that you can compare yourself to because you haven't gotten to that rock bottom moment. It doesn't matter how you compare to others, like you said. And that, because I mean, for many years, like I would sometimes get into the habit of believing, okay, well maybe it's not that bad because, you know, you weren't beating me or you weren't cheating on me or you weren't gambling or you weren't spending all the money. You weren't out all the time, you know, away from home. So it was really hard to say but your drinking is still a problem. It's not right the way you're drinking.
Ever thought about how alcoholism doesn't just affect the person drinking but also everyone around them? In this episode of the 'Untoxicated Podcast', Sheri and Matt Salis tackle this often overlooked aspect. They share how the standards of those who love an alcoholic can progressively deteriorate, just like the drinking itself. They start by answering a listener's question, adding a personal touch to their already candid discussion.
You'll hear about the origins of our baseline standards, how they slip over time, and why it's crucial to return to those standards during recovery. This isn't just a conversation; it's an eye-opener into the emotional rollercoaster that families and loved ones endure. With their unfiltered honesty and relatable experiences, Sheri and Matt offer a compassionate yet realistic look at the trauma of active addiction and the uphill battle of early recovery.
If you're navigating these rough waters, this episode might just offer the understanding and hope you need.