Matt & Sheri Salis
Matt & Sheri Salis
Ep123 – The “Hot Mess” of Intimacy in an Alcoholic Relationship
Ep123 – The “Hot Mess” of Intimacy in an Alcoholic Relationship
Ep123 – The “Hot Mess” of Intimacy in an Alcoholic Relationship
Monday 24th January 2022
Join Sheri and Matt Salis on Untoxicated Podcast as they explore intimacy challenges in alcoholic relationships, offering insights on trust and communication.
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Matt & Sheri Salis
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Sobriety Toolkit
Family Recovery from Addiction
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Get the buttons here!Untoxicated Podcast Ep123: Rebuilding Intimacy Amidst Alcoholism
Trust and alcoholism can't coexist. Intimacy is impossible without trust and vulnerability. So, alcoholism and intimacy are mutually exclusive.
Can intimacy survive in a relationship plagued by alcoholism? Sheri and Matt Salis tackle this challenging question head-on in this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast. Drawing from their own experiences, they delve into the intricate dance between trust and intimacy in an alcoholic marriage. They explore two distinct paths that sexual contact can take when alcohol is involved, shedding light on the often-overlooked 'childbirth fork in the road'.
The couple isn't afraid to challenge societal norms and their own preconceptions about maturity and satisfaction. They discuss how a sex education system focused on preventing STDs and unwanted pregnancies often neglects female pleasure, adding another layer of complexity to intimate relationships. Communication, or the lack thereof, emerges as a critical theme. Sheri and Matt emphasize how difficult yet crucial it is to talk openly about satisfaction and needs.
They also touch on how external stressors, like work, can further strain a couple's intimate life. One of the key takeaways is the notion that trust and alcoholism cannot coexist. Without trust and vulnerability, true intimacy remains out of reach. But it's not all bleak; Sheri and Matt offer insights into how intimacy can be restored, even after years of struggle. They highlight the importance of positive experiences outside the bedroom and the role of compromise in rebuilding a relationship.
This episode is a candid, eye-opening look at the complex interplay between alcoholism and intimacy. Whether you're dealing with these issues yourself or supporting someone who is, you'll find valuable perspectives and practical advice to help navigate these turbulent waters.