Matt & Sheri Salis
Matt & Sheri Salis
Ep121 – The Blame Game Keeps Us Stuck
Ep121 – The Blame Game Keeps Us Stuck
Ep121 – The Blame Game Keeps Us Stuck
Monday 10th January 2022
Matt and Sheri Salis explore how blaming alcohol instead of each other can help in recovery on the Untoxicated Podcast.
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Get the buttons here!Breaking Free from Blame: Matt and Sheri Salis on Alcoholism Recovery
Once the couple learned to blame the alcohol, treat alcoholism like the disease that it is, and think of the addict as a third person separate from Matt, there was some relief. But sobriety doesn't fix anything, and that realization is where the work started.
Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle of blame when dealing with alcoholism? In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Matt and Sheri Salis dive deep into how blame can keep us trapped. When Matt was drinking, he often blamed Sheri for their rocky marriage. In early sobriety, he turned that blame inward, feeling immense shame. Meanwhile, Sheri was convinced that Matt and his drinking were the root of their problems.
It wasn't until they both started blaming the alcohol itself that they found some relief. But sobriety was just the beginning. They soon realized that recovery requires hard work beyond just quitting drinking. Matt and Sheri share how they learned to see alcoholism as a disease and treat the addict as a separate entity from Matt. This shift in perspective helped them start the healing process.
They discuss the importance of processing resentment, making amends, and rebuilding trust—essential steps that are often overlooked. The journey is tough, but it's crucial for the marriage to improve. This episode is packed with raw honesty and practical advice. Matt and Sheri emphasize the need for compassion, humility, and giving trust as a gift.
They also highlight how crucial it is to understand that while blaming the disease can provide some relief, it doesn't replace the hard work required for recovery. If you or someone you love is grappling with alcoholism, this episode offers valuable insights and a sense of hope. Tune in to hear Matt and Sheri's candid discussion on breaking free from the blame game and embarking on a path to healing.