Shedding the Mask: Building a Healthier Relationship with Yourself and Money
My ego would come out and provide me the mask that I would wear, like a chameleon, very much like a chameleon.
Have you ever felt like you're hiding behind a mask, not just from others but from yourself? In this episode of Financial Sobriety, Matthew Grishman and Jim Gebhardt tackle the complex relationship between self-perception and financial habits. They delve into how our ego and the masks we wear can deeply affect our money decisions.
Matthew opens up about his own journey, revealing how he used to hide behind a mask to cope with uncomfortable situations, which spiraled into destructive financial behavior. With the help of The Enneagram Institute, he discovered his ego type and learned to break free from these negative patterns. The conversation doesn't stop there. Jim and Matthew discuss the dangers of gluttony and other harmful behaviors that can sabotage your financial well-being.
They stress the importance of self-love and self-control in building a healthier relationship with money. One of the standout moments is when Matthew shares his practice of looking in the mirror and affirming, 'I'm proud of you, I love you, and I believe in you'. This simple yet powerful act has been pivotal in transforming his relationship with himself and his finances.
The episode also touches on the role of financial advisors in helping individuals develop a healthier relationship with money. Jim and Matthew offer practical tools and heartfelt advice for anyone struggling with their financial habits. They emphasize that understanding and loving yourself is crucial for achieving financial sobriety. If you're ready to take off the mask and face your true self, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps to start your journey.
Tune in to learn how to build a more intentional and fulfilling relationship with both yourself and your money.