Patty Blue Hayes: Triumph Over Divorce and Despair
I wanted to be put in a coma and wake up healed and whole and fine...there's a lot of shame and stigma that people have about suicide, and I have to tell you in a funny and odd way, when I was in the psychiatric hospital, I actually felt understood.
When life feels like it's falling apart, Patty Blue Hayes' story is a beacon of hope. In this gripping episode of the Breakup Recovery Podcast, Patty opens up to host Barbara Stevens about her harrowing journey through a 17-year marriage marred by emotional and substance abuse. The betrayal of infidelity left her feeling shattered and alone, spiraling into a depth of despair that led to a suicide attempt. Patty's candid recounting of her darkest moments is both heart-wrenching and inspiring.
She talks about how her emotional pain manifested physically, leading her to a point where she saw no way out. But Patty's story doesn't end in darkness. Through sheer resilience and the therapeutic power of writing, she transformed her pain into a successful book, 'Wine Sex and Suicide My Near Death Divorce', and built a coaching business to help others facing similar struggles.
In this episode, you'll hear how Patty coped with suicidal thoughts, sought help, and found strength in vulnerability. She shares practical tips for managing emotional pain, recognizing triggers, and embracing self-care. This conversation is a powerful reminder that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Whether you're grappling with your own breakup or supporting someone who is, Patty's story offers valuable insights and hope for healing.