Balancing Support: Enabling vs. Helping in Addiction Recovery
Episode Overview
Understand the difference between enabling and helping. Recognise codependent behaviours in relationships. Set firm boundaries to protect your wellbeing. Focus on self-care and personal recovery. Balance support with encouraging independence.
In all codependent relationships, the rescuer needs the victim as much as the victim needs the rescuer.
In this episode of 'Finding Hope', Amy LaRue and Darcie Stevens tackle the often misunderstood concepts of enabling versus helping when it comes to supporting loved ones struggling with addiction. Amy, the Finding Hope Coordinator for Hope is Alive Ministries, shares her personal experiences and professional insights, making the discussion both relatable and enlightening. Darcie joins her to shed light on the delicate balance between providing support and inadvertently enabling harmful behaviours.
They dive into the definition of codependency and explore its impact on both the individual and their relationships. The conversation is peppered with real-life anecdotes, making the topic accessible and engaging. You'll learn about the importance of setting boundaries, recognising enabling behaviours, and focusing on self-care. The hosts emphasise that recovery isn't just for those with addiction but also for those who love them.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with these challenges, offering practical advice and a compassionate perspective. By the end, you'll have a clearer understanding of how to support your loved ones while also taking care of yourself. Tune in for a heartfelt and informative discussion that promises to leave you feeling hopeful and empowered.