Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Dysfunctional Ways Narcissists Cope - Reinventing The Past
Dysfunctional Ways Narcissists Cope - Reinventing The Past
Dysfunctional Ways Narcissists Cope - Reinventing The Past
Monday 22nd June 2020
Learn how narcissists cope by reinventing the past in this episode with Cynthia Bailey-Rug, featuring personal stories and practical advice.
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Get the buttons here!Narcissists and Their Revisionist History: Coping Through Reinventing the Past
If that's how she wants to cope with pain, so be it. It's her choice and it's her right, but that also does not mean that I have to validate it.
Imagine living with someone who constantly rewrites history to make it more bearable. In this episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug dives into one of the many dysfunctional ways narcissists cope: by reinventing the past. Narcissists often lack healthy coping mechanisms, and revising history is a common tactic they use to deal with painful truths. Cynthia shares her own experiences with her overtly narcissistic mother, who endured severe abuse from her own mother but chose to remember her as loving and protective.
This revisionism wasn't just frustrating for Cynthia; it was a way for her mother to cope with the harsh reality that her own mother despised her. By reshaping the past, her mother could cling to a more comforting narrative. Cynthia’s insights reveal how understanding this behavior can help you take it less personally and feel more pity than anger. But remember, just because you understand their need to rewrite history doesn’t mean you have to validate their lies.
Cynthia advises against correcting them or playing along with their delusions. Instead, focus on your own healing and don’t let their distorted memories invalidate your pain. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that sheds light on this complex coping mechanism and offers practical advice for those dealing with narcissists.