Facing Dishonesty in Recovery
Episode Overview
Dishonesty can be a significant barrier to lasting sobriety. Being honest with oneself is crucial for recovery. Fear often underlies dishonest behaviour. Having an honest sponsor is vital for building trust. Honesty is not just about telling the truth but living authentically.
Dishonesty with myself is the big deal. That's the one that's going to kill me.
Dishonesty is a topic many people in recovery might shy away from, but it’s crucial for maintaining sobriety. In this episode of the Recovered Podcast, host Mark S. and his co-hosts Russ, Buddy, and Jason dive deep into the role dishonesty plays in addiction and recovery. They share personal stories, reflections, and practical advice on how to overcome the habit of lying - both to oneself and others - which can be a significant barrier to lasting sobriety.
The episode opens with Mark introducing the topic and the importance of honesty in recovery. Russ shares his initial thoughts, highlighting how dishonesty was a coping mechanism during his active addiction. The conversation takes a personal turn as the hosts discuss their experiences with dishonesty and how it affected their relationships and recovery journeys. Buddy talks about the fear that often underlies dishonesty, while Jason expands on the dangerous self-deception that can lead to relapse.
One of the standout moments is when Russ recalls his early days in recovery and the pivotal role his sponsor played in helping him confront his dishonesty. The hosts agree that being honest with oneself and others is not just a moral issue but a practical necessity for staying sober. They also touch on the importance of having an honest sponsor and the damage that can occur when this trust is broken.
The episode is filled with anecdotes that are both relatable and enlightening, making it clear that honesty is not just about telling the truth but about living authentically. It’s a reminder that while dishonesty can be a relapse trigger, honesty can be a powerful tool for healing and growth. If you’re struggling with honesty in your recovery journey, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to help you stay on track.