Dating After Addiction: Insights from The Freedom Model
Episode Overview
Challenges the advice of waiting a year to start dating in recovery Highlights the problematic dynamics and history of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Emphasizes the importance of shedding the addict self-image to improve relationships Shares personal experiences and insights on dating within the AA community
If you're in AA, you're in a destructive cult, know that. Um, and there's no, there's no gray area with that. There are lots of really good people out there that don't get messed up every day. It doesn't do that. Pick from the bigger pool. I mean, here's the thing about...
Ever been told to put your love life on hold after quitting heavy substance use? In this episode of 'The Freedom Model for Addictions', hosts Mark Scheeren and Michelle Dunbar tackle the often-debated advice of waiting a year before dating post-recovery. They dissect this common recommendation, particularly within the context of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), and offer their own unique perspectives. Scheeren and Dunbar argue that clinging to the 'addict' label can hinder personal growth and relationship success.
Through candid discussions and personal anecdotes, they highlight the importance of moving beyond the addiction identity to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the tricky waters of dating after addiction, offering a fresh take on breaking free from traditional recovery norms.