Helping Kids Understand: A Father’s Addiction Explained
Children are very self-absorbed and myopic, and they think everything is about them because they're just beginning to figure out how they fit in the world and what the world means and what is it all about, and they don't really understand much outside of themselves.
Imagine growing up in a home where your dad's addiction casts a shadow over everyday life. This episode of 'The Rehab' features an enlightening conversation between Dr. Mark Leeds and Carolyn Hannan Bell, a seasoned psychotherapist and author of the book 'Dad's Addiction'. Carolyn shares her insights on how a father's drug problem affects children and what mothers can do to help their kids make sense of it all.
Carolyn’s book is designed to be a tool for mothers to read with their children, helping them grasp that their father's addiction isn't their fault and that they can't control it. The beautifully illustrated pages of 'Dad's Addiction' guide children through understanding that their dad's struggle is a medical issue, not something they caused or can fix. Dr.
Leeds and Carolyn dive into the heart of the matter, discussing the chaos that addiction brings into a household and the critical need for kids to understand their own boundaries and responsibilities. They explore how children often see the world through a self-centered lens, making it vital for parents to approach these conversations with patience and empathy.
Carolyn also touches on the broader topic of addiction treatment, including the role of medication and the importance of compassion in the recovery journey. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with addiction in the family, offering practical advice and emotional support. Tune in to hear more about how you can help your children navigate the complexities of living with a parent's addiction and find some peace amidst the turmoil.