Cross-Stitched Wisdom: Rediscovering Friendship in the Midst of Addiction
Today's reminder- when I was a child, my mother cross-stitched a design for me that hung in my room. It read: to have a friend, you must be one and its companion on the other side of the door read: let a smile be your umbrella.
In this heartfelt episode of 'A Dose of Hope', Ginny Mills, an addiction specialist and parent, opens up about her own journey through the stormy seas of her sons' addiction. Ginny's raw and honest storytelling sheds light on the often-overlooked emotional toll that parents face. She talks about how the constant worry led her to neglect her own needs and how she became as isolated as her sons in the process.
Drawing from a childhood memory, Ginny recalls a cross-stitched design that read, 'To have a friend, you must be one'. This simple yet profound reminder serves as the backbone of her message. She emphasizes the importance of being a friend to oneself and others, even when life feels overwhelming. Ginny shares how reconnecting with long-time friends can be a lifeline, offering much-needed support and joy.
Throughout the episode, Ginny encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and consider reaching out to old friends. She underscores that these connections can play a crucial role in both personal health and the recovery journey. For those looking for more support, Ginny highlights resources available on ParentingThroughAddiction.com, including educational videos, treatment center information, and group support. This episode is a gentle nudge for parents to not only care for their children but also for themselves.
It's a reminder that they don't have to walk this path alone and that friendship can be a powerful tool in healing. If you're navigating the challenges of a child's addiction, Ginny's words might just offer the comfort and encouragement you need.