Building Bridges: Connective Parenting with Bonnie Harris
So connective parenting really focuses on the parent and the responsibility of the role of the parent, and this is why it's hard, because most parents want their kids to change. Yeah, we want them to be the problem, not us right.
Parenting can often feel like walking a tightrope, especially when trying to connect deeply with your children. In this engaging episode of the Safe Home Podcast, Beth sits down with Bonnie Harris, a seasoned expert in Connective Parenting. Bonnie, who boasts a master's degree in Early Childhood Education and is the proud mother of two grown children, brings a wealth of knowledge and practical advice to the table.
She’s also the author of 'When Your Kids Push Your Buttons' and 'Confident Parents, Remarkable Kids', and hosts her own podcast, 'Tell Me About Your Kids'. Bonnie’s approach to parenting focuses on the parent's role in fostering a nurturing environment. She explains that by changing their behavior, parents can significantly influence their children's actions.
This episode dives into the concept of the 'orchid child' and the 'dandelion child' – metaphors for children who either need specific conditions to thrive or can adapt to various environments. Bonnie also introduces the 'harmony child' and the 'integrity child', each requiring different parenting techniques to flourish. Listeners will learn about the eight principles of Connective Parenting outlined in Bonnie's book.
These principles include understanding your own history, focusing on connection, showing empathy, being present, recognizing your child's individuality, teaching problem-solving and decision-making skills, setting limits, and being authentic. Bonnie emphasizes that while Connective Parenting is challenging, it’s transformative, helping parents build stronger, more empathetic relationships with their children. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their connection with their kids and raise confident, resilient individuals.
Bonnie’s insights offer a refreshing perspective on parenting that prioritizes empathy and mutual respect. Tune in to discover how you can apply these principles in your daily life and create a harmonious family environment.