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Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Episode 3 - Archive)
Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Episode 3 - Archive)
Coddling, Belittling, Resilience (Episode 3 - Archive)
Sunday 7th July 2024
Explore the balance between coddling and belittling in relationships with hosts West Thompson and Austin Hill. Learn how to build resilience and support loved ones.
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Episode Overview
- Coddling and belittling can both stem from self-centredness.
- Listening and being present are crucial in supporting loved ones.
- People often need to experience their own pain to grow.
- Avoid trying to fix others' problems; focus on emotional support.
- Understanding the impact of your emotional responses can improve relationships.
Belittling someone's feelings is a sure way to just really not be relationally healthy with them.
Are you someone who finds themselves constantly trying to 'fix' things for others, only to realise it's not what they need? In this episode of Relational Recovery, hosts West Thompson and Austin Hill dive into the delicate balance between coddling and belittling in relationships. They share personal stories that highlight the importance of simply being present and listening, rather than jumping into solution mode.
West opens up about his journey of learning to support his wife without trying to fix her problems, while Austin reflects on his own experiences with emotional responses and the impact of belittling others' feelings. They discuss how both coddling and belittling can be rooted in self-centredness and how these behaviours can negatively affect relationships. Through candid conversations, they explore the idea that sometimes, people need to experience their own pain to grow and learn.
This episode is a heartfelt look at how we can better support our loved ones by acknowledging their emotions and being present. Whether you're struggling with addiction or just looking to improve your relationships, you'll find valuable insights here. Tune in to understand how to build resilience and foster healthier connections.