Co-Parenting Chaos: Dr. Michael Kinsey on Navigating Narcissistic Dynamics
Creating meaningful narratives around the experiences, not walking away from it, not silencing it, not pretending as if it's not actually happening. That's a really important thing for kids.
Co-parenting with a narcissist can feel like an endless uphill battle. In this episode of 'Narcissistic Abuse Rehab', host Manya Wakefield teams up with Dr. Michael Kinsey, a clinical psychologist and author, to tackle this complex issue. Dr. Kinsey brings his expertise in parent-child attachment and intergenerational trauma to the table, offering valuable insights for those raising children with narcissistic partners.
The conversation dives into the potential risks children face, such as developing personality disorders, and what parents can do to mitigate these dangers. Dr. Kinsey also sheds light on estrangement and parental alienation, often referred to as 'triangulation' when a narcissist introduces a new partner into the mix. One of the key messages is the importance of validating children's experiences and avoiding the trap of creating a false reality for them. Dr.
Kinsey emphasizes that acknowledging the situation, rather than pretending it doesn't exist, is crucial for the well-being of both the parent and the child. He also stresses the importance of self-care for the non-narcissistic parent, reminding listeners that they need to look after themselves to effectively support their children. If you're navigating the stormy seas of co-parenting with a narcissist, this episode offers practical advice and emotional support to help you steer through the chaos.