Joe Barton: Tackling Sponsorship Fears in AA with Humor and Honesty
I would rather be effective in AA than be liked in AA.
Imagine being asked to guide someone through the complex journey of sobriety, only to be gripped by a paralyzing fear of not being good enough. In this episode of 'A Podcast Greater Than Yourself', Joe Barton opens up about his own struggles with the fear of sponsorship in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). With a mix of humor and raw honesty, Barton takes listeners on his personal journey from self-doubt to becoming a confident and effective sponsor.
He admits that his initial fear was rooted in the belief that he wasn't qualified to help others, compounded by a strong desire to be liked within the AA community. However, through working the 12 Steps and gaining more experience, Barton discovered that effectiveness as a sponsor is far more crucial than popularity. He emphasizes, 'I would rather be effective in AA than be liked in AA'.
Throughout the episode, Barton stresses the importance of staying true to AA's principles and warns against the temptation to deviate from them. He also shares practical tips on how to overcome self-doubt and maintain focus on the program. One particularly poignant moment is when Barton discusses the role of gratitude in his recovery, revealing how gratitude lists have been instrumental in his journey.
For anyone feeling unqualified or overwhelmed by the idea of sponsorship, Barton's candid reflections offer both inspiration and practical advice. Whether you're new to AA or a seasoned member, this episode provides valuable insights into becoming a more effective sponsor while staying true to yourself and the program.