Navigating Life with a BPD Parent: Insights on Codependency and Healing
Mothers with BPD tend to give feedback and validation to their children largely based on whether or not the child pleases the parent. But that encouragement isn't necessarily consciously, fully understood.
Ever felt like you're always trying to please someone, especially a parent? In this episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups', A.J. Mahari dives into the complex dynamics between mothers with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and their adult children. These relationships often leave the children grappling with codependency, constantly adjusting to meet their mother's needs while neglecting their own. Mahari sheds light on how these patterns form and the toll they take on one's emotional well-being.
She highlights the importance of therapy in breaking free from these cycles and finding a sense of self. The episode also touches on the independent film 'Mother's Day', which poignantly portrays the struggles of loving a parent with BPD. Mahari’s compassionate approach offers listeners practical advice and hope for healing. If you're looking to understand more about the impact of BPD on family dynamics and seeking ways to reclaim your life, this episode is a must-listen.