Decoding 'Stop Walking on Eggshells': A BPD Perspective with Dad Dean
Episode Overview
The episode critiques the stigmatizing language and assumptions within the book 'Stop Walking on Eggshells' Insights into the role of parents in BPD and the challenges of parenting a child with BPD Discussions on the importance of self-care for family members and providing a loving and structured environment Emphasis on the significance of consistency in reinforcement of rules and understanding and supporting individual needs Personal stories and reflections shed light on the impact of BPD on family dynamics and the journey towards understanding and acceptance
The whole vibe I get from this chapter is kind of a savior mentality of parents. But I don't think that's healthy for any side of this. And I don't think it's true. Most parents are not initially able to deal with borderline and help deal with it. The idea that these parents are saving the world from their child, I just don't think that's a very realistic way of the way parenting actually works with a child with mental health issues.
Ever wondered how the book 'Stop Walking on Eggshells' holds up under the scrutiny of those who live with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and their loved ones? In this episode of Bold Beautiful Borderline, hosts Laurie Edmundson and Sara Amundson, along with special guest Dad Dean, tackle Chapter 10 of this often-recommended book. This isn’t your typical book review.
Laurie and Sara dive into the content with a critical eye, discussing both the helpful aspects and the problematic, stigmatizing language that can harm those with BPD and their families. With a mix of personal anecdotes and thoughtful analysis, they aim to shed light on how such language impacts real lives. The episode covers a range of topics, from the role of parents in managing BPD to the unique challenges of raising a child with this condition.
Laurie and Dad Dean share their own experiences, offering heartfelt reflections on family dynamics and the importance of self-care for everyone involved. They emphasize the need for a loving yet structured environment and the value of consistency in reinforcing rules, while also stressing the importance of understanding each individual’s unique needs. If you’re curious about how to navigate life with BPD or support someone who does, this episode offers a compassionate and honest exploration.
Tune in for a blend of humor, raw honesty, and valuable insights that make the complexities of BPD more relatable.