Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
Borderlines Mixed Signals & Codependent Fantasy Bond Cycles
Thursday 26th December 2024
A.J. Mahari explores the chaotic dynamics of BPD relationships, offering insights into mixed signals and codependent fantasy bonds.
28 minutes
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Episode Overview
- BPD relationships often involve mixed signals and emotional chaos.
- Codependents struggle to let go despite the turmoil.
- Push-pull dynamics are driven by fears of abandonment and engulfment.
- Healing requires focusing on self-differentiation and personal growth.
- Understanding BPD behaviour can provide clarity and help in moving forward.
They can’t really love in a healthy, age-appropriate, mature, reciprocal, mutual, congruent, consistent way.
In this episode, A.J. Mahari dives deep into the chaotic dynamics of relationships involving individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). If you've ever been caught in the whirlwind of mixed signals and codependent fantasy bonds, this episode is a must-listen. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, brings her 30 years of experience to the table, offering a compassionate yet candid look at these complex relationships.
She explains how those with BPD often give mixed signals – one moment professing their love, and the next, ghosting or discarding their partners. Mahari also highlights the struggles of codependents who find themselves unable to let go, despite the emotional turmoil these relationships cause. Through real-life anecdotes and expert advice, Mahari sheds light on the push-pull dynamic and the deep-seated fears of abandonment and engulfment that fuel these cycles.
You'll gain valuable insights into why these relationships are so challenging to break free from and how to start focusing on your own healing journey. If you're struggling to understand the behaviour of a BPD partner or trying to find a way out of a toxic relationship, this episode offers both clarity and hope. It's an eye-opening exploration of love, need, and the difficult path to self-differentiation.
Don't miss out on this opportunity to learn from Mahari's extensive knowledge and experience.