Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

A.J. Mahari

  • Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy

Borderlines Are Not Relationship Worthy

Sunday 9th February 2025

Explore the complexities of relationships with individuals with BPD and learn why therapy is essential for both parties' healing.
29 minutes
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Non-judgmental

About this podcast

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Understanding the Challenges of BPD Relationships

Episode Overview

  • People with BPD struggle with self-worth and identity.
  • Simply telling someone with BPD they're 'worth it' isn't enough.
  • Extensive therapy is essential for individuals with BPD.
  • Healing from codependency requires self-care and professional support.
  • Understanding family of origin issues can aid in recovery.
"Telling someone with BPD they're worth it won't change anything – they need therapy to find their lost self."
In this episode of the Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup Podcast, A.J. Mahari dives deep into the complexities of relationships involving individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). A.J. discusses the challenges faced by those with BPD, highlighting their struggles with self-worth, identity, and relational consistency. She explains that people with BPD often project their self-loathing onto others, making it difficult for them to maintain healthy relationships. A.J.
emphasises that simply telling someone with BPD that they are 'worth it' does not replace the need for extensive therapy and self-discovery. The episode also touches on the experiences of those in relationships with individuals with BPD, particularly focusing on the pain and confusion that can arise from these dynamics. A.J. encourages listeners to seek therapy and support for their own healing and recovery, stressing the importance of self-worth and self-care.
The episode is filled with compassionate insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of a relationship breakup involving BPD.