Counsellor A.J. Mahari

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Counsellor A.J. Mahari

  • Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth

Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth

Monday 10th April 2023

A.J. Mahari discusses borderline tribalism and right-fighting, offering practical advice for healing from BPD relationship breakups.
87 minutes
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Eye-opening
Raw
Thought-provoking
Transformative

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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Understanding Borderline Tribalism: Insights from A.J. Mahari

People with borderline personality disorder cannot and will not actually, in any age appropriate, consistent, congruent way, ever be able to experience you for you, see you for you, love or attach to you, no matter how much the wokest bpd tribalist narrative says out there: oh, but I can love.
Ever felt like you're walking on eggshells in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counselor and trauma recovery coach, dives deep into the concept of borderline tribalism and right-fighting in this episode. With over 30 years of experience, Mahari sheds light on the often misunderstood behaviors of individuals with BPD, especially their tendency to adopt a victim mentality that can complicate relationships.
She argues that this mindset is sometimes fueled by a co-opted 'social justice warrior' mentality, making it difficult for those with BPD to handle criticism or differing opinions. Mahari emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and emotional regulation, both of which are often lacking in untreated or poorly treated individuals with BPD. This episode isn't just about identifying problems; it's also about solutions.
Mahari offers practical advice on healing from codependency and narcissistic abuse, stressing the importance of setting boundaries and going no-contact when necessary. She also highlights the profound impact that a lack of respect, love, and care can have on one's emotional and physical health. If you're struggling to understand the complexities of BPD relationships or looking for ways to heal and move forward, this episode is a treasure trove of insights and practical tips.
Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of borderline tribalism and right-fighting, and learn how to reclaim your emotional well-being.