Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Borderline Groundhog Day Repetition Compulsions Understanding Codependent Fantasy
Borderline Groundhog Day Repetition Compulsions Understanding Codependent Fantasy
Borderline Groundhog Day Repetition Compulsions Understanding Codependent Fantasy
Sunday 14th July 2024
Understand the repetitive cycles in BPD relationships and learn how to break free with expert advice from A.J. Mahari.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
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Recovery from Trauma
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Episode Overview
- People with untreated BPD experience repetitive cycles of emotional dysregulation.
- Codependent partners often cling to unrealistic 'fantasy bonds'.
- Understanding these patterns is crucial for breaking free.
- Professional therapy is essential for both parties.
- Focusing on personal healing can help end the cycle.
Expecting someone with untreated BPD to change without help is futile.
Ever felt like you're stuck in a never-ending cycle with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, dives into the relentless 'Groundhog Day' repetition compulsion experienced by those with untreated BPD and their codependent partners. Mahari explains how people with BPD are trapped in unconscious cycles of emotional dysregulation, re-enacting past traumas without realising it.
She breaks down why these individuals can't seem to learn from their repeated behaviours and how this affects their relationships. Codependent partners, on the other hand, often find themselves clinging to a 'fantasy bond,' hoping for change that rarely comes without professional intervention. Mahari provides compassionate advice on recognising these patterns and the importance of seeking therapy for both parties.
She emphasises that expecting someone with untreated BPD to change without help is futile and highlights the necessity for codependent individuals to focus on their own healing journey. With real-life anecdotes and expert insights, this episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with the complexities of BPD relationships. So, if you're tired of feeling unseen and unheard, this episode offers a beacon of understanding and practical steps to break free from the cycle.