Understanding Step 8: Making Amends with Compassion
Episode Overview
Make a list of all persons harmed. Become willing to make amends. Understand the emotional challenges involved. Learn to forgive others as part of the process. Recognise the importance of repairing relationships.
It doesn't make much sense when a real tosspot calls a kettle black
In this episode of AA Morning Snippets, Alyssa takes listeners through the first half of Step 8 from the '12 & 12'. Step 8 is all about making a list of people we've harmed and becoming willing to make amends. Alyssa breaks down the step with compassion and clarity, making it accessible even for those who might find the idea daunting.
She emphasises the importance of looking back to see where we've been at fault, understanding the damage we've caused, and preparing to repair it. Alyssa also touches on the emotional challenges that come with this step, such as the difficulty of forgiving others and the fear of facing those we've hurt. She reminds us that this process is not just about mending past wrongs but also about learning to live in peace and harmony with others.
Alyssa's reflections are both practical and heartfelt, offering a mix of personal anecdotes and broader insights that make this episode relatable and encouraging. If you're working through the steps or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable guidance and a gentle push towards healing. Tune in to find out how you can start making amends and move forward on your recovery journey.