Stephanie Kostopoulos & Beth Demme
Stephanie Kostopoulos & Beth Demme
Being Preyed Upon at Church (with Sandy)
Being Preyed Upon at Church (with Sandy)
Being Preyed Upon at Church (with Sandy)
Friday 12th November 2021
Hear Sandy Phillips Kirkham's story of abuse by a youth pastor and the church's response on 'Discovering Our Scars'. A must-listen on institutional trust and predation.
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Get the buttons here!Sandy's Journey: Unveiling Predatory Behavior in Church Settings
We take on the blame, we take on the shame.
What happens when the place you trust the most becomes the setting for your worst nightmare? In this gripping episode of 'Discovering Our Scars', Sandy Phillips Kirkham bravely shares her harrowing experience of being groomed and preyed upon by a youth pastor at her church.
Sandy was just a teenager who found solace and acceptance in her church community, but that trust was shattered when a new youth pastor manipulated her affection for the church to initiate a long-term abusive relationship before she turned sixteen. When the abuse came to light, the church’s response was to quietly move the pastor to another congregation and ask Sandy to leave, adding insult to injury.
Hosts Stephanie Kostopoulos and Beth Demme provide a compassionate space for Sandy to recount her story, highlighting the disturbing power dynamics between abusers and their victims. They delve into the often overlooked issue of how institutions like churches can inadvertently create environments ripe for predation due to inherent trust structures. This episode isn't just about Sandy's past; it’s a call to action for listeners to recognize and address the silent suffering within trusted spaces.
With Sandy's courage as a beacon, this conversation emphasizes the necessity of breaking the silence and seeking justice. Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that sheds light on the dark corners of institutional trust and abuse.